If you’re cheating or thinking about cheating, here’s why: You have not made the decision to be faithful. You have not desired faithfulness. Temptation does not follow those without desire.
I’ve never been a smoker or a drinker. Thus, I’m not tempted by cigarettes, weed and alcohol. I decided a long time ago that those things were no good for me.
I decided the same for my marriage. All of these loose, simple minded, pretending to be deep and spiritual women aren’t on my radar. I’ve been out there before marriage. You still smell the same.
Another reason you’ve cheated or are contemplating cheating is you don’t understand the value of fidelity. You can’t comprehend the price of an honorable marriage covenant. It would’ve been better if you knew these before you married, but you can still learn them along the way.
Marriage will never be about being with the perfect person, but rather the beauty of spending your life with someone who’s perfect for you.